Reasons Not to Give Money to Begging Children
In Cambodia, particularly in Siem Reap, the rapid expansion of the tourism sector has significantly affected local communities, leading to cultural conflicts, swift modernization, and severe poverty. While providing financial assistance to children may appear to be a simple solution, the reality is more complex than it initially seems.
Giving Money to Begging Children
Many of these children have compelling narratives, claiming they are attending school in the afternoon (or vice versa if encountered in the morning) and that the funds will support their education. While this may hold true in rural areas, it is highly unlikely that such claims are genuine when observed near the Angkor temples or Pub Street.
The money may indeed reach their families, which might seem beneficial. However, this approach exemplifies tough love. When families expect or require their children to beg or sell items to contribute financially, it merely serves as a temporary fix to their economic struggles. This behavior ultimately jeopardizes the children’s future as the nation progresses, leaving the impoverished even further behind.
By refusing to support this system, there is a significantly greater chance for these children to attend school, thereby providing them with an opportunity to escape the cycle of poverty and secure a better future for themselves and their descendants.
What about providing food to children who beg? While this may appear compassionate, it is important to exercise caution. Such actions could lead to repercussions for the child from those in positions of authority. Similar to monetary donations, this fosters a dependency that may hinder the child’s ability to pursue alternative means of living in the future, perpetuating a cycle of begging for sustenance or funds. It is particularly advisable to avoid giving sweets or soft drinks, as many Cambodians lack access to dental care, and such items could exacerbate dental issues.
Is it appropriate to give toys, toothbrushes, school supplies, or rice? In these instances, it is crucial to utilize reliable channels. Numerous scams exist concerning rice and educational materials, so conducting thorough research is essential. If approached unexpectedly, consider gathering details or informing them that you will seek assistance at a later time.
It is essential to strategize before taking action. Numerous educational institutions implement, and should implement, stringent policies regarding gift-giving. These policies are designed to ensure that donations are consolidated until a sufficient quantity of gifts is available, thereby preventing any student from feeling either favored or neglected. It is advisable to consult with the school administrator to determine the most effective way to contribute donations. Rather than arriving unannounced, it is prudent to call ahead and schedule an appointment.
Siem Reap’s Baby Milk Scam
It is likely that while you are in the vicinity of the Old Market or Pub Street, you may encounter a woman or child carrying an infant who will request that you purchase a can of milk powder for at least $20 instead of giving them money directly. Although this may appear to be a genuine request for assistance, it is, in fact, a fraudulent scheme. Exercise caution and politely but firmly decline such requests.
To elaborate on the milk powder scam: Should you choose to buy a can of milk powder, you will be directed to a particular shop to make your purchase. However, once you depart, the milk powder will be returned to the store, and the proceeds will be split between the scammers and the shop owner. Ultimately, the milk will be placed back on the shelf of that same store, ready to be sold repeatedly.
In reality, if a mother is truly unable to provide nourishment for her child, there are non-governmental organizations that offer powdered milk at no cost.
Giving Money to Old or Disabled People
The situation becomes increasingly intricate at this juncture. In Cambodia, the absence of a welfare system means that elderly individuals without familial support face significant challenges in sustaining themselves, which can lead to dire circumstances. Likewise, individuals with disabilities also lack access to a welfare system. Notably, a tenet of Buddhist philosophy suggests that disabilities may be viewed as a consequence of misdeeds committed in a previous life.
Our overarching recommendation in this context is to exercise common sense; providing assistance is acceptable and, in many instances, can offer considerable relief.
A Better Way to Help
Numerous local non-governmental organizations are actively assisting individuals in all these regions, and they represent an excellent resource for those who wish to contribute in a significant manner.
Furthermore, it is essential to exercise sound judgment. While it is important to be compassionate, it can sometimes feel disheartening to decline a request from someone in need. However, in many instances, refraining from giving money can be more beneficial. Use your reasoning, and if you find yourself uncertain, do not hesitate to seek guidance.